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Pretentious: Attempting to impress by affecting greater importance, talent, culture, etc., than is actually possessed.

Brooding: preoccupied with depressing, morbid, or painful memories or thoughts
The behavior you seem to be referring to repeatedly is someone’s preference to be a loner and a general perception of being too good to participate in activities shared by “normies” based on a feeling of superiority. The person you describe doesn’t participate because he wants those around him to know and observe that he is above such base activities. All of these behaviors seem much more in line with someone who is attempting to show others that he is better than them and that he “gets” something they don’t. Again, all in line with being pretentious.

A brooding person however is someone with an inability to find enjoyment or purpose is most “pleasant” activities. Being brooding means that whether you like it or not your mind is typically stuck in a cycle of negative thoughts and interpretations of events around you. Despite how hard a truly brooding person may try to be happy there is usually not a lot that can be done to change their actual feelings. Brooding feelings are often very similar to depression and someone who has a brooding personality may well suffer from “dysthymia”.

Dysthymia is basically a long term low grade depression that lasts anywhere from a few years to a lifetime. As someone who suffers from this (and is frequently described as brooding) I can tell you that internal feelings and reactions are largely out of your control. It can be best described as a negative conscience of sorts. An incessant little voice that tells you why every person isn’t who they seem to be, why every situation will end poorly, why you’ll never measure up to anything in life… and if you do, what’s the point? At the end of the day we all end up in the ground and all the voice wants is for you to be left alone until you get there. This is not something a brooding person can control and as someone who has struggled with this my entire life I find the idea of someone getting a “brood job” rather asinine. It’s a constant and draining struggle for one to pretend that they’re not in a foul or somber mood the majority of their day, especially when greeted with happy faces at every turn. It’s like making your brain try to cope with two realities (a happy and sad one) and your brain already “knows” that the sad one is the true reality despite your attempts to convince it otherwise. You legitimately have these feelings or you do not.

The mistake that seems to be made is that pretentious people will exhibit brooding behavior because it shows those around them that they are different than the norm. They exhibit broody behavior as a means to an end. The less interested and aloof they seem… the cooler they must be. However for a brooding person the negative feelings, isolation and constant inner turmoil are the ends… and the means are completely out of their control. The means happen and thus cause their end, all independently of those feeling them. If you just want to play James Dean then you’re pretentious… if you have a fundamental inability to view the world in anything other than a bleak grey then you’re probably brooding.

And for a final note… being a “hunk” is probably the single most irrelevant factor in any of this. If you’re good looking then you’re good looking… if you’re not then you’re not. Neither of these factors play in to one’s ability to feign “brooding” to seem cooler than they are. Nor does it factor in to one’s ability to deal with relentless internal negativity. And assigning traits like “they never play sports or video games” makes this seem more like a nerd’s rallying cry that the people in question don’t “get it” than anything of value or merit. As a brooding person I don’t enjoy team based activities. It is hard for me to boost team moral or find a feeling of unity in these activities. I do however thoroughly enjoy Muay Thai kickboxing as it is an individualized sport. And despite being, as you put it, “quiet, prominent-cheekbones, scowly lips, pale to the point of translucence, half-mast eyes that flash and glint, but never twinkle; the brooding hunk” I spent far more time in high school “leveling up” than I did with any women. Trust me, if I could swap the dark cloud that follows me for an “easy smile and the inability to shut up” I happily would. The fact that our culture finds my negativity and discontent romantic and attractive to women is of little comfort. People want to read about tortured heroes… not to be tortured people.